Wednesday, May 4, 2011

Why I Love To Blog! PLUS, A Little L-O-V-E For The Midwest . . .


Well, well, well. I've never done this before, and I have some mixed feelings about it, but here we go.  Lately, I've received some really sweet comments, e-mails, and "real-live" verbal conversations about the ol' blog-a-roo.  It really brightens my day. . . even when the person is practically a complete stranger.  :)  I wanted to write a little thank you to everyone who reads this blog. . . even if you've never met me, never commented, never whatever.  I appreciate it, and some of those comments . . . e-mails . . . conversations have really meant a lot.  Seriously. 

Like I've said before, I blog for me.  I'd keep on blogging even if I never received any feedback at all.  I view this as my journal, and I prefer to call it that since I've pretty much stopped writing in my paper journal.  And I am a more consistent journal writer now that I blog. My kids already love looking back at all the pictures, and I think someday they might like to read what I had to say too.  Maybe?  I try to write the good and the bad, but mostly the good.  I try to write about the big events, and the little, sweet conversations and moments.  I try to write about exciting things and things that are hard for me.  I try to write, not just the family happenings, but what I'm feeling.  Hopes, dreams, goals, frustrations, thoughts, happinesses.  

A close second to my purpose in blogging would be to keep family and close friends informed on our lives. . . you know, if they're interested.  hehe. I started this blog all the way back in 2007, because my friend - Haley M. - kept telling me I should. . . and I admired her blog.  Back then, I viewed it as an easy way to keep my extended family, many of whom live far away, up to date on the happenings of my little family.  It still does serve that purpose, but over time the bigger purpose became my own personal journal . . . that I happen to let anyone in the world read.  hehe.  (I just recently realized there was a "stats" tab that lets you see how many people visit your blog, when, from where in the world, etc.  Interesting!) 

Just a clarification:  I've never considered myself an especially talented writer. . . or even interesting, clever, funny, or insightful.  But I try.  And I enjoy it.  Also, although I know the rules of grammar - I am an English Major after all - I try to write in my own "voice" when I blog.  Even if that means run on sentences, or incomplete sentences, or words that don't technically exist.  You get the idea.

Blogging can be so personal, and so impersonal at the same time.  It can seem so self centered, and so giving at the same time.  It can be funny, and serious, and sometimes sad.  It can teach you new things in a fun way. . . like just wait 'til I show you a picture of a cute onesie project my mom and I have been creating - all thanks to a blog.  :)  Although I don't think blogging should take the place of actual phone calls or real conversations, I do wish all my close friends and family blogged, because it's a really easy way to keep informed (because part of my purpose in this thank you is to encourage some of my peeps to start their own blog :). 

So yeah, I'm a fan of the "blogging world" and love to check it out when I have a spare second.  So, if you don't blog already - start!  And for the rest of you - 
Why do you like to blog?       

Back to my main point:  Thank you!  I really, sincerely appreciate your positive feedback.  Yippee!  :)

Scenes from Marquette:

Now on to the second part of this nice, long journal entry.
LOVE for the MIDWEST

Ethan and I have been talking a lot about where we would like to live when he graduates this August.  It is a blessing and a curse that Physical Therapists are in high demand in pretty much any area of the country.  It's really up to us. And the starting salary seems to be pretty consistent no matter where we're looking.  (Weird, huh?)  I grew up in the mid-west, mostly Indiana then Michigan when I was 15, and L-O-V-E-D it.  I love the down to earth vibe of the Midwest. And call me crazy (Chuck! my f-i-l :), but I think the Midwest is beautiful. . . even Indiana.  hehe.  I love the green and experiencing all four seasons.  I love the beauty of farmland.  I love the wide open spaces and the thick woods.  I love Midwest thunderstorms.  I love the beauty of Lake Superior, and all the Great Lakes (Great Times!  hehe :).  I love the thick pine tree forests. I love the rocky shores.  I love canoeing the Wabash, hiking in hilly Southern Indiana, cliff jumping into Lake Superior, bonfires on the beach, playing hide-and-seek in corn fields, the smell of pines, the Michigan sand dunes, and the list could go on. 

I see the beauty in other places I've lived or visited too - the majestic mountains of Idaho and Utah, the palm trees and perfect weather of Southern California, visiting the luscious South, the dry desert of the Southwest, the peaceful beaches of the Caribbean, etc, etc, etc.  (Some of these places are a little too brown and grey for me though. . . did I already mention how much I love the GREEN here?)  So yeah, my heart will always be with the Midwest, no matter where I am living.  And much of that has to do with family.  Oh, I love my family.  However, I think it'd be super fun to live else where and try somewhere new.  Ethan and I both find it very appealing to live in a place that neither of us has lived before.  Ethan moved to Marquette from Colorado when he was eight, so he mostly grew up in the Midwest too.  He's also lived in a few other Western states, New Zealand, Australia, and has visited many, many other places.  As a family, we've only lived in Michigan - the Upper Peninsula, and our two year stint down sate.  We would love to try something new. . . New England, Alaska, Oregon, Idaho, Colorado?     

So, why don't we just pick a spot and go for it, you ask?  Because I'm pretty sure Ethan will try to get a job here in Marquette.  Why?  Because sweet, little Anna has prayed EVERY DAY this past year, "Please help daddy find a job in Marquette."  Man, kids can be so influential.  hehe. Yes, I know she'll adjust and be happy where ever we live, but being close to her big, extended family means so much to her right now. . . and Benjamin too. . . and probably Caleb too if he could tell us.  And we have a lot of family in the Marquette area right now (even though my in-laws have been saying for years that they're going to move :).  I loved growing up near my big, extended family, and have so many great memories of regular family get togethers as a child.  We love living close to our family here in Marquette, and feel like it's such a blessing to live by them - that they all get to be a regular, influential part of our lives and more importantly, our children's lives. 

SO, the plan right now is for Ethan to hopefully get his first job in the Marquette area, which he seems to think will probably work out.  (Just over a month ago, he went around to all the PT clinics in the area and handed in a resume, and had some positive feedback - always hiring - from a couple places!)  Then after some years of experience for Ethan, and when the kids are old enough to think it'd be cool to move away from their extended family :), we could then do the whole, "move somewhere we've never lived before" thing.

And although there are a few things I'd change about Marquette to make it perfect, like knocking two months off the winters here, and making it closer to a major city (although I think the remoteness is part of the appeal too), there are so many things I love about living here:  our family, our friends . . . some since high school, our Church family, the Lake, NMU, the size, the bike paths, the beautiful outdoors, our old neighborhood, the beautiful beaches, the hospital (where all three babies were born), 3rd street, the library . . . oh the library, the look, the vibe, the people.  I l-o-v-e MARQUETTE.  And although I've lived here for a little over eight years, cumulatively, I could live here a little longer.  Especially if it makes Anna happy.  :)
We'll keep you posted on that.   

Scenes from Indiana:

So, what do you love about your neck of the woods? 

P.S. All of these pictures are from google images. 

Friday, April 29, 2011

Scenes from Easter Weekend. . .

(Lots of scenes.  And some of the pictures are "grainy."  I need a new camera.  Or at least read the manual for mine and learn how to use it better.  But this post isn't about that. . .   :) 

Rorie's 3rd Birthday Princess Party:
(Saturday morning.  Celebrating a little early since Meg and Rorie are leaving before her actual birthday.  :(

 Finding the Easter Baskets:
(The Easter Bunny hides the baskets on Saturday, and the kiddies have to follow the clues the Bunny leaves to find them.  It's a fun tradition, and this year they ended up in the shower.  Nice.  Love Ben-Ben's mouth full of candy.  And notice Caleb's little basket on the floor with the baby food.  :)

Surprise party for a friend:
(Yummy food, good conversation, great music, unbelievable desserts, and no kids!  Thanks guys! The birthday girl requested no pictures. . . and I was kind enough to oblige, but only because it was her birthday.  hehe.  Oh, and notice in the last picture I'm holding up my finger and thumb a few inches apart. . . showing the size of my c-section scar. . . 'cause someone asked.  :)

Sunday Morning Easter Pictures: 
(Love the kiss for Ben-Ben from Anna. . . and the picture of all three. :)
This was Caleb's first time to church.  What an exciting day!  He got a little overwhelmed at the end of Sacrament Meeting, but mostly did well.  Now, if only his older brother had been so good.  Ben-Ben was in rare form that day.  Too much Easter, perhaps?  :) 


Easter Dinner with Gramma Susan and Grampa Dewey:

Easter Baskets at the Rayhorns, and sweet cousin pics:
(Love the group hug with all four.  So cute. . . and even unprompted! :)

Easter Egg Hunt at Gram Melissa and Grampa Chuck:


What a fun, and busy weekend.  And this is even leaving out another birthday party Anna attended on Saturday (bringing the total to three), some fun quality time hanging out at Beth and Stuarts, and probably a few other things I'm forgetting.  As is my style, I included so many, many pictures.  (But notice how I barely wrote anything?!  That's good for me.  hehe.)  For all our friends and family who were not close enough to celebrate with us on this beautiful, joyful holiday, we missed you!  And I hope you were able to feel a little bit like you were here with us.        

Saturday, April 23, 2011

He Is Risen . . .


I'm singing in church tomorrow with my good friend, Ginny Tanner.  (She has a beautiful voice!  And the very talented Camille Comton will play the piano for us.)  Although I always get a little nervous singing in front of people, I LOVE the song, so I can't help but be excited.  The song is called, Because He Lives. The music, the lyrics. . . I feel like it perfectly captures the testimony I have of my Savior, Jesus Christ.  You can read the lyrics and hear the song HERE.  Beautiful. 

I know He lives!  I know Jesus Christ loves us, and was willing to make the ultimate sacrifice on behalf of each one of us.  He died for us, but rose again.  I am grateful I can read of His perfect life and example in the scriptures, and try to follow that path he set for us.  Because of Him, I feel hope, comfort, love, and peace.  I love the sentences from THE LIVING CHRIST that say, "He is the light, the life, and the hope of the world. His way is the path that leads to happiness in this life and eternal life in the world to come."  I know that is true!

HAPPY EASTER!